March 31, 2008

Hot Dating Tips For Men #9/28

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Hot Dating Tip #9: Be friends.

Make some women your friends - but not the ones you are really interested in.

Women tend to be more person-centred than men - they love to have lots of friends - and you should have some women as friends for that reason: they will introduce you to their women friends!

But beware of being too much a friend with women you really have other feelings for. Once a woman has you listed as ‘friend’, that’s where they will want to keep you - they hate losing their friends and may be afraid that once they step over the ‘lover line’ with you, that’s what may happen. Sad to say, it often does.

Tip! Your children will always come first. It’s one of the most important Dating Tips for single moms I know of.

It is not impossible to ‘convert’ a woman from friend to lover, but it’s not easy. You have to change the way she thinks about you from ‘Mr Nice and Reliable’ to ‘Mr Exciting and Attractive’. That means behaving differently towards her, without letting her think you have flipped out or become certifiably deranged. Much easier to figure out early on who has the hottest friends, and keep the ‘friend’ thing and the ‘lover’ thing separate.

The other great thing about women as friends is that you can be seen out with them, which instantly makes you more attractive to other women. If you are seen out on your own too often, you could start to look like a loser.

Tip! Here are some Dating Tips to practice online followed by some ‘offline’ Dating Tips should you decide to meet someone.

Scott Holland is the author of “How to Overcome Shyness and Find the Woman of Your Dreams”. See http://www.dreamwoman.co.uk for details and free article: Six Myths About Women and sex - and why they are all wrong!

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March 29, 2008

Hot Dating Tips For Men #8/28

Tip! This is probably one of the most important speed Dating Tips. Focus the conversation on learning more about the person you’re sitting across from than on advertising yourself.

Hot Dating Tip #8: Be charming.

A quick tip today.

Women love charm, so long as it is natural, cool and unpretentious. Watch any Cary Grant movie - especially with Audrey Hepburn. Charm is good manners. Charm is respect. It shows you are paying attention to her.

Some women will protest if you open car doors for them - they want to assert their independence and do not want to be patronised, as they see it. If your date responds in this way, then let her open her own doors - let her do it for you, if she insists - but maintain a polite and respectful attitude nevertheless.

Tip! Here are some Dating Tips to practice online followed by some ‘offline’ Dating Tips should you decide to meet someone.

Cultivate good manners, but don’t confuse charm with slick and sticky. Don’t crawl, don’t indulge her every whim and don’t automatically agree with everything she says. Women hate a pushover. Good-tempered arguments are fine as part of a wider discussion, but steer clear of any kind of attack on her beliefs or values - however veiled - as she will take it personally and you will probably never get a second date.

Dating Tips & Relationship Advice. Men, Win With Women. Women, Get And Keep The Man You Want. And Much, Much More.

Learn to say “No” charmingly, too.

Scott Holland is the author of “How to Overcome Shyness and Find the Woman of Your Dreams”. See http://www.dreamwoman.co.uk for details and free article: Six Myths About Women and sex - and why they are all wrong!

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March 27, 2008

Hot Dating Tips For Men #7/28

Tip! Keeping these speed Dating Tips in mind will make your first speed dating experience more relaxing and help you put your best foot forward.

Hot Dating Tip #7: Be observant.

Women notice different things about people than men do. They notice how people dress, how they move, how they speak, how they hold themselves and they notice subtleties of body language that go clean over the heads of most men. If you take the time to learn about this stuff, you can get up to speed with what women know instinctively. Only then will you be playing on a level field.

Dating Tips & Relationship Advice. Men, Win With Women. Women, Get And Keep The Man You Want. And Much, Much More.

A friend of mine has a fantastic technique that often enables him to be holding a woman’s hand within 20 seconds of meeting her! It’s really impressive to watch. He has taken the time to learn a lot about jewellery, especially precious stones.

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He just walks up to his ‘target’ and says, “Hey, that’s a really interesting ring/bracelet/necklace (delete as appropriate) you’re wearing. Can I take a closer look?”

If it’s a ring, he takes their hand and examines the stone, saying something like, “Wow, where did you get this?”. He goes on looking and holding while she talks, using a firm but gentle grip and making sure to let go before she gets uncomfortable. Often, he says nothing more than, “Thanks for letting me see that.”, before smiling enigmatically, walking away and standing or sitting somewhere within view, talking to someone else or pretending to read a book.

He says that most times, the woman will stare a while at the ring (or whatever he chose to look at) and then come over and start talking to him!

Women don’t wear jewellery by accident. They choose it carefully and they wear it because they like it. If you like it too, and genuinely find it interesting, attractive or unusual - and can talk halfway intelligently about it - they will take it as a real compliment.

Tip! OK, guys, that’s it for this article. Obviously there are lots of other Dating Tips, tricks and secrets to put to use, but if you pay attention to these Dating Tips, you’ll be a heckuva lot more successful with sexy women.

By complimenting a woman on her choice of accessories, you are indirectly complimenting her - and women are far more susceptible to indirect compliments than to direct ones, which are usually far too obvious. A woman will never take offence at a genuine compliment about the way she dresses, but may be irritated or annoyed about an equally heartfelt remark about any part of her body.

Scott Holland is the author of “How to Overcome Shyness and Find the Woman of Your Dreams”. See http://www.dreamwoman.co.uk for details and free article: Six Myths About Women and sex - and why they are all wrong!

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