It seems to me that we are seeking success with women because we believe that if we are successful with women we will experience some sort of great joy and enduring pleasure.What I said may surprise you.Moreover, it may also surprise you that success with women is not what you REALLY want.You only want to be in this state because you believe that this state will serve as a bridge between your current less fulfilling state (emptiness, loneliness, despair, etc…) to a different more pleasurable state (satisfaction, fulfillment, and contentment).Yet, for some reason the state of being successful with women never seems to materialize. The only place where it usually does is in your head.So, the inevitable question is: why?Why are you doing everything that you can to achieve success with women yet fail and why there are some guys who treat women badly, yet achieve all the success they want?Now the simple answer that most dating gurus give to men is that women are attracted to men that are confident and are repulsed by nice men who radiate neediness and lack of self esteem.This is very true. This is what is actually going on, but how does this help […]

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